The rolling orgasm

This one doesn't truly end for her until the stimulation stops (and sometimes well after)! Think of rolling hills, where you aren't always on the peak of one but you are never quite back on the plains when walking between.

I have found (and verified again 5 minutes ago) that bringing her to and through a rolling orgasm works best if the source of the stimulation is varied as you go through it. First warm up every point on and in her vagina that are the usual focal points of her orgasms to get the blood flowing and the nerves primed.

Next and lastly you want to bring her to an orgasm, switching off the points or way in which to pleasure them. Keep in mind those ways have to be able to bring her to orgasm all on their own or else it isn't going to be intense enough to to keep her at the crescendo.

Here is what I do for that:

1. Stroke her clit rapidly till she orgasms.
2. While still orgasming I push in two fingers and quickly stroke her G-spot with a "come here" motion.
3. I stop the come here motion and with the same two fingers again I jab them into her G-spot like a jack hammer.
4. I insert three fingers and stroke rapidly against her G-spot some more but this time I lower my face and wildly lick on her clit. Be careful not to bruise her pelvic bone to the left and right of your three fingers.
   
5. I finish up by more rapid stroking in various ways to carry her along until it looks that she isn't getting as wound up by it as earlier.
6. I ease her down off the final wave by gently massaging her pussy lips and G-spot and sucking on her breasts.
   

From experience, a rolling orgasm can last anywhere from 5-15 minutes of intense sexual pleasure for her.

Finding the G-spot

I have seen quite a number of how-to's on this basically laying out how to find it. It isn't quite as simple or complicated as some make it out to be. Sometimes there can be confusion if you follow such directions. Most describe the correct location of the G-spot but what it feels like against the fingers seems to vary. One stated that it was kind of like a hard pea shaped nodule. Another described it as a spongy piece of flesh.

In my experience that pea shaped nodule isn't always there. Why? Because that is most likely just a lymph node and those aren't always in the same place. As to the spongy part, that seems to just be the the back of her pelvic bone meeting the roof of her vagina, and the result of them intersecting produces the change in tissue consistency. The spongy place seems to be pretty consistent and is a good way to know when you are close to both the G-spot and the Skene's glands, which are what make her squirt when she orgasms. The Skene's glands are also sometimes called the "female prostate" because it produces a fluid about the same as that produced by a man's prostate when he ejaculates. But anyway, enough with the technical talk.

The G-spot is basically along the roof of a woman's vagina right behind the pelvic bone. Where exactly it is varies because some portions of it are going to be more sensitive. You will know when you find it because her response will change when you stroke it. By stroke it I don't mean give it a massage, and though that will certainly feel nice, it is best just for a warm-up. To get the response you need in order to be certain you have found her G-spot you don't need to rub hard. Just do that "come here" motion really fast.

I have heard of some guys basically doing an interview while they probe around like the gynecologist inside her. If she gets frustrated from being under pressure or has to think too much then you might very well find her G-spot and then breeze right past because she was too flustered by your questions to give you the real response you should have been looking for. To restate myself, once you have found it, you will know it. Just pay attention to her body and the sounds she is making!

Another G-spot & clit power combo

Her lower back was hurting so I proceeded to give her a relaxing massage to work it out. Moved to her feet as well and then slowly worked my way up both legs. I then did a very slow and purposeful vaginal massage covering every surface outside then every nook inside.

When I could barely keep her from riding my fingers I decided to get down to the business of getting her off. Reaching for her lower deep spot I ended up bobbing her uterus up and down (as mentioned in another posting). After some light stimulation of her deep spot I decided to move to her G-spot with my fingers and brought her off hard with a rapid "come here" motion and then some lightening quick finger fucking into her G-spot (short, fast bursts of motion).

Giving her a very brief breather I slid my hard cock into her, pushed legs into the air, made sure I had my cock pressed firmly into her G-spot and then left it there. Placing my moist thumb onto her clit, my palm flattened, fingers sticking out, I stroked her clit with my hand a blur. A visual analogy of how my hand was moving would be someone trying to furiously wipe down a window that just doesn't want to come clean (be careful with this since some women can't take the intensity it can produce).

As one hand got tired even a little bit I would quickly switch thumbs in one swift motion being careful to keep up that same wild pace as before. It paid off as she started screaming and gasping for air, her body lifting up off the bed as she started flinging herself about, my hand never relenting on her clit. I swear I could feel electricity coming up off her skin from the nerves firing.

My cock had popped out from her wild movements so when it looked like her orgasm was starting to subside I slid two fingers inside her and working the G-spot angle again I also latched my lips onto her clit, licking away to prolong her orgasm as much as possible. By this point she was shaking like she'd been hit by a taser and had pressed herself up into the corner where the bed met the wall.

This was one of the best I've seen this woman have. I won't soon forget that stimulating combo.

Wiggling her uterus

Though certainly not orgasmic by any stretch, I have found an apparently amusing thing to do. Wiggling her uterus.

With her on her back, insert two finger as far in as possible and scoop them up under the bottom part of her cervix. Bounce those fingers up and down and her uterus will bob around inside her. You can even see it bouncing against the inside of her abs. For some reason she found this quite fascinating and while there wasn't much pleasure involved it was something that just felt "different" and "weird" for her (in her words). I was after her lower deep spot when I accidentally did this.

I have to wonder if it had any impact on the later resulting super powerful orgasm she experienced shortly thereafter. Though it could just be coincidence seeing as I was working other sensitive areas once I got back on the orgasmic track. I will have to try that again just in case.

The anal orgasm

Centered around the anus (obviously), the anal orgasm feels different from any sort of vaginal orgasm. It isn't likely something a woman will want to even attempt if she isn't acclimated to the act of anal sex. So she has to be warm to the idea in general, not just willing, before even considering it or there won't be an orgasm period from trying it.

I have found that the best way to give her an anal orgasm is for her to be on her back, legs in the air, as if I was try to hit her G-spot directly. It sometimes works doggy style, but I haven't been able to make it as intense as the aforementioned position. Perhaps that is because I am hitting her G-spot through her rectum in addition to the anal stimulation. Having her on her back also prevents anything from getting into her vagina which could causing a urinary tract infection.

Before beginning I have to make sure I have the right lube and enough of it! Dry anal sex isn't a good idea and can lead to pain when there should be pleasure. This article at FemaleFirst delves into lubes and has a good primer on anal sex in general.

Another good idea I have found is to ensure her bowels are empty first. I can check this fact by inserting a finger into her vagina and stroking towards them to see if anything is in there.

First I make sure I have warmed her up, and I don't just mean warming her up anally. Making her pussy cum is always a great way to start out before moving to try an anal approach. Having those endorphins flowing through her body before hand helps immensely.

Using a small toy or finger to relax her anus is a good idea, taking it slowly. When she is warmed up, enjoying it, and sufficiently turned on then I slowly ease in my cock, fucking her gently. I steadily turn up the pace until I am fucking her like a jack hammer, as hard and fast as she is able to take it (which usually isn't as hard and fast as her vagina can take it).

I always have to watch for signs that it is hurting and slow down or even stop if it is. Not every time this is tried is she going to be able to handle it. If all goes well she will have a mind numbing anal orgasm.

I have noticed that this is one of the most difficult of places to warm up enough to produce a full to life orgasm, so it might take repeated attempts before she attains that sky high pleasurable climax.

For your visual reference (and viewing pleasure), Alicia Klass shows off some good anal orgasms here and here.

Cumming vs Orgasming

There is a difference, from what I have seen and even been bluntly told by women. When a woman cums it feels pleasant and is centered mostly around the vagina. When she orgasms it is generally a much more powerful sensation felt across the body. A great cum is a relief and puts a smile on her face. A great orgasm can make her nearly pass out and briefly forget her own name.

One woman I know described cumming as something she can feel in the area of her vagina and sometimes her breasts. Orgasming she described as something felt across her whole body from "my head to my feet and back up again."

For starters

For starters on this blog, I'm just going to state one simple observation about giving her orgasms. The most intense so far seems to come from the following combo:

1. Start her off with a nice sensual warm up of foreplay, pleasuring her from top to bottom.


2. Bring her to a clitoral orgasm.


3. Move to stimulate her deep spot until she orgasms.


4. Right at the start of her deep spot orgasm hit her G-spot very rapidly to bring her to a squirting G-spot orgasm.

Most of the time when I get this combo right she arches her back high off the bed, screams, and shakes uncontrollably across her body from the force of the orgasms. I have even had instances where she actually seems to be trying to crawl away from the intensity of that final orgasm that results from this combo.