The anal orgasm

Centered around the anus (obviously), the anal orgasm feels different from any sort of vaginal orgasm. It isn't likely something a woman will want to even attempt if she isn't acclimated to the act of anal sex. So she has to be warm to the idea in general, not just willing, before even considering it or there won't be an orgasm period from trying it.

I have found that the best way to give her an anal orgasm is for her to be on her back, legs in the air, as if I was try to hit her G-spot directly. It sometimes works doggy style, but I haven't been able to make it as intense as the aforementioned position. Perhaps that is because I am hitting her G-spot through her rectum in addition to the anal stimulation. Having her on her back also prevents anything from getting into her vagina which could causing a urinary tract infection.

Before beginning I have to make sure I have the right lube and enough of it! Dry anal sex isn't a good idea and can lead to pain when there should be pleasure. This article at FemaleFirst delves into lubes and has a good primer on anal sex in general.

Another good idea I have found is to ensure her bowels are empty first. I can check this fact by inserting a finger into her vagina and stroking towards them to see if anything is in there.

First I make sure I have warmed her up, and I don't just mean warming her up anally. Making her pussy cum is always a great way to start out before moving to try an anal approach. Having those endorphins flowing through her body before hand helps immensely.

Using a small toy or finger to relax her anus is a good idea, taking it slowly. When she is warmed up, enjoying it, and sufficiently turned on then I slowly ease in my cock, fucking her gently. I steadily turn up the pace until I am fucking her like a jack hammer, as hard and fast as she is able to take it (which usually isn't as hard and fast as her vagina can take it).

I always have to watch for signs that it is hurting and slow down or even stop if it is. Not every time this is tried is she going to be able to handle it. If all goes well she will have a mind numbing anal orgasm.

I have noticed that this is one of the most difficult of places to warm up enough to produce a full to life orgasm, so it might take repeated attempts before she attains that sky high pleasurable climax.

For your visual reference (and viewing pleasure), Alicia Klass shows off some good anal orgasms here and here.