Wednesday, April 25, 2007

The rolling orgasm

This one doesn't truly end for her until the stimulation stops (and sometimes well after)! Think of rolling hills, where you aren't always on the peak of one but you are never quite back on the plains when walking between.

I have found (and verified again 5 minutes ago) that bringing her to and through a rolling orgasm works best if the source of the stimulation is varied as you go through it. First warm up every point on and in her vagina that are the usual focal points of her orgasms to get the blood flowing and the nerves primed.

Next and lastly you want to bring her to an orgasm, switching off the points or way in which to pleasure them. Keep in mind those ways have to be able to bring her to orgasm all on their own or else it isn't going to be intense enough to to keep her at the crescendo.

Here is what I do for that:

  1. Stroke her clit rapidly till she orgasms.
  2. While still orgasming I push in two fingers and quickly stroke her G-spot with a "come here" motion.
  3. I stop the come here motion and with the same two fingers again I jab them into her G-spot like a jack hammer.
  4. I insert three fingers and stroke rapidly against her G-spot some more but this time I lower my face and wildly lick on her clit. Be careful not to bruise her pelvic bone to the left and right of your three fingers.
  5. I finish up by more rapid stroking in various ways to carry her along until it looks that she isn't getting as wound up by it as earlier.
  6. I ease her down off the final wave by gently massaging her pussy lips and G-spot and sucking on her breasts.
From experience, a rolling orgasm can last anywhere from 5-15 minutes of intense sexual pleasure for her.

Friday, April 13, 2007

Finding the G-spot

I have seen quite a number of how-to's on this basically laying out how to find it. It isn't quite as simple or complicated as some make it out to be. Sometimes there can be confusion if you follow such directions. Most describe the correct location of the G-spot but what it feels like against the fingers seems to vary. One stated that it was kind of like a hard pea shaped nodule. Another described it as a spongy piece of flesh.

In my experience that pea shaped nodule isn't always there. Why? Because that is most likely just a lymph node and those aren't always in the same place. As to the spongy part, that seems to just be the the back of her pelvic bone meeting the roof of her vagina, and the result of them intersecting produces the change in tissue consistency. The spongy place seems to be pretty consistent and is a good way to know when you are close to both the G-spot and the Skene's glands, which are what make her squirt when she orgasms. The Skene's glands are also sometimes called the "female prostate" because it produces a fluid about the same as that produced by a man's prostate when he ejaculates. But anyway, enough with the technical talk.

The G-spot is basically along the roof of a woman's vagina right behind the pelvic bone. Where exactly it is varies because some portions of it are going to be more sensitive. You will know when you find it because her response will change when you stroke it. By stroke it I don't mean give it a massage, and though that will certainly feel nice, it is best just for a warm-up. To get the response you need in order to be certain you have found her G-spot you don't need to rub hard. Just do that "come here" motion really fast.

I have heard of some guys basically doing an interview while they probe around like the gynecologist inside her. If she gets frustrated from being under pressure or has to think too much then you might very well find her G-spot and then breeze right past because she was too flustered by your questions to give you the real response you should have been looking for. To restate myself, once you have found it, you will know it. Just pay attention to her body and the sounds she is making!

Sunday, April 1, 2007

Another G-spot & clit power combo

Her lower back was hurting so I proceeded to give her a relaxing massage to work it out. Moved to her feet as well and then slowly worked my way up both legs. I then did a very slow and purposeful vaginal massage covering every surface outside then every nook inside.

When I could barely keep her from riding my fingers I decided to get down to the business of getting her off. Reaching for her lower deep spot I ended up bobbing her uterus up and down (as mentioned in another posting). After some light stimulation of her deep spot I decided to move to her G-spot with my fingers and brought her off hard with a rapid "come here" motion and then some lightening quick finger fucking into her G-spot (short, fast bursts of motion).

Giving her a very brief breather I slid my hard cock into her, pushed legs into the air, made sure I had my cock pressed firmly into her G-spot and then left it there. Placing my moist thumb onto her clit, my palm flattened, fingers sticking out, I stroked her clit with my hand a blur. A visual analogy of how my hand was moving would be someone trying to furiously wipe down a window that just doesn't want to come clean (be careful with this since some women can't take the intensity it can produce).

As one hand got tired even a little bit I would quickly switch thumbs in one swift motion being careful to keep up that same wild pace as before. It paid off as she started screaming and gasping for air, her body lifting up off the bed as she started flinging herself about, my hand never relenting on her clit. I swear I could feel electricity coming up off her skin from the nerves firing.

My cock had popped out from her wild movements so when it looked like her orgasm was starting to subside I slid two fingers inside her and working the G-spot angle again I also latched my lips onto her clit, licking away to prolong her orgasm as much as possible. By this point she was shaking like she'd been hit by a taser and had pressed herself up into the corner where the bed met the wall.

This was one of the best I've seen this woman have. I won't soon forget that stimulating combo.

Wiggling her uterus

Though certainly not orgasmic by any stretch, I have found an apparently amusing thing to do. Wiggling her uterus.

With her on her back, insert two finger as far in as possible and scoop them up under the bottom part of her cervix. Bounce those fingers up and down and her uterus will bob around inside her. You can even see it bouncing against the inside of her abs. For some reason she found this quite fascinating and while there wasn't much pleasure involved it was something that just felt "different" and "weird" for her (in her words). I was after her lower deep spot when I accidentally did this.

I have to wonder if it had any impact on the later resulting super powerful orgasm she experienced shortly thereafter. Though it could just be coincidence seeing as I was working other sensitive areas once I got back on the orgasmic track. I will have to try that again just in case.