Finding the G-spot

I have seen quite a number of how-to's on this basically laying out how to find it. It isn't quite as simple or complicated as some make it out to be. Sometimes there can be confusion if you follow such directions. Most describe the correct location of the G-spot but what it feels like against the fingers seems to vary. One stated that it was kind of like a hard pea shaped nodule. Another described it as a spongy piece of flesh.

In my experience that pea shaped nodule isn't always there. Why? Because that is most likely just a lymph node and those aren't always in the same place. As to the spongy part, that seems to just be the the back of her pelvic bone meeting the roof of her vagina, and the result of them intersecting produces the change in tissue consistency. The spongy place seems to be pretty consistent and is a good way to know when you are close to both the G-spot and the Skene's glands, which are what make her squirt when she orgasms. The Skene's glands are also sometimes called the "female prostate" because it produces a fluid about the same as that produced by a man's prostate when he ejaculates. But anyway, enough with the technical talk.

The G-spot is basically along the roof of a woman's vagina right behind the pelvic bone. Where exactly it is varies because some portions of it are going to be more sensitive. You will know when you find it because her response will change when you stroke it. By stroke it I don't mean give it a massage, and though that will certainly feel nice, it is best just for a warm-up. To get the response you need in order to be certain you have found her G-spot you don't need to rub hard. Just do that "come here" motion really fast.

I have heard of some guys basically doing an interview while they probe around like the gynecologist inside her. If she gets frustrated from being under pressure or has to think too much then you might very well find her G-spot and then breeze right past because she was too flustered by your questions to give you the real response you should have been looking for. To restate myself, once you have found it, you will know it. Just pay attention to her body and the sounds she is making!