Learning to have squirting orgasms

Going to start off on a technical note here...

Firstly, "squirting" is what is technically known as "female ejaculation." This is when a woman essentially does what a man does when he cums, minus the sperm of course. In fact the liquid she squirts out has almost the same chemical composition as prostate fluid before it is mixed with sperm to make semen. It is actually believed to come from a place called the Skene's glands, which is basically the "female prostate", and is shot out of the urethra just the same as when a man ejaculates.

Most women "squirt" to a degree but the force is so mild that it is felt mostly as just an increase in wetness at the point of orgasm and most of the fluid runs back into the vagina where it is scarcely seen. Then there are those women that can genuinely squirt. There is a big difference with women who can readily squirt when compared with a man. When she squirts the force of her orgasmic contractions can refill the glands over and over, firing out quite a bit more than most men could muster. Women like this are sometimes born with the ability and some times they develop it after the right stimulation of the tissue surrounding the Skene's glands. With some it can be a matter of just letting go due to the fact that a lot of women might misinterpret the feeling as a need to urinate because it comes out of the same (sorta) opening she pees from.

OK, enough with the technical side. On to the fun part....getting it to happen!

For some women this will come a lot easier than others. For some, it might not even be possible. One thing is for sure though, whether she can figure out how to squirt or not, it will be a hell of a lot of pleasurable fun for her to try and try again!

As strange as it may sound, a woman can sometimes need to have a part of her vagina "trained" to accept stimulation as pleasurable enough to be orgasmic. Don't misread that. I said "pleasurable" enough. At no point should there be pain or else something might be wrong. There also shouldn't be any discomfort, though anything new like this might feel a bit strange to her at first. As with any "training" it doesn't always happen on the first go, so don't get discouraged. Even if it does happen you will want to do it plenty more to develop that response. Again, I doubt she will complain. ;)

1. First of all, stimulating that area can make her feel a lot like she needs to pee so she should empty her bladder before trying this so she knows that what is squirting out is just her own cum. For your part, make sure your fingers are clean and your nails trim. This is actually important unless you want to risk an infection or bloody mess or both. Yes, this can be done with your cock or a dildo, but the fingers are much for versatile and that is best for this purpose.
   
   
2. She should be comfortable and not feel under any pressure to perform. This is supposed to be fun.
   
   
3. Warm her up with some good foreplay. You want the blood flowing to all the sensitive areas, her body ready for pleasure, and of course, her pussy plenty wet. If there isn't enough wetness I recommend using some water based lubricant like Astroglide.
   
   
4. Using two of your fingers find her G-spot and stroke against it slowly using a come here motion, going all the way to her pelvic bone. If you can get in three fingers that would be ideal, even if you have to bunch your fingers up. The reason I recommend three fingers is because the tissues and glands you are trying to work on are to the left and right of the urethra. This way you have a finger stroking each side and one for the G-spot. Just be careful not to bruise the sides of her entrance however many you can fit in.
   
   
5. The slow stroking need only last for a little while just to get them primed. Like any other sexual stimulation you give her you are going to want to turn up the intensity enough to push her over the edge. This means moving those fingers faster. This doesn't always do the trick though.
   
   Variations after warming up with the "come here" motion:
   
   • I have found that sometimes changing that "come here" motion to a "C shaped taping" (curling your fingers into a "C" shape) motion works better. Think along the lines of trying to tap your own palm with the tips of your fingers or like you are trying to "scoop" the roof of her vagina forward with the movement of your fingers. It takes some finesse but you'll get it.
     
     
   • Another method is to change to pointing your fingers towards your wrist (like Spiderman) and then very rapidly tapping them into the area right at the edge of her G-spot and almost against her pelvic bone. There is an added bonus of the palm of your hand rubbing her clit if you angle it right. To get extra speed you can use both hands at once by gripping the hand that is inside her and jerking it up and down (something men should be experts at anyway).
     
   
   
6. If you don't let up the stimulation, get the intensity right, and carry her to an orgasm (and on through it) then she might squirt. Depending on your hand position you might block that squirt so it is up to you to recognize it if there aren't jets of it. She may be in too much of a daze from the orgasm. If nothing happened, then like I said, try and try again until you both figure it out. :)
   
   
7. If it happened, be prepared to get a towel and a glass of water for her. She may be dehydrated after squirting so much out of her. She may even want to try it again after resting a moment, seeing as women can often have multiple orgasms. Lucky, lucky. :P

After all is said and done at some point she may be able to have almost purely squirting orgasms by stimulating her in the right way. These don't tend to be as intense so my recommendation is to get her squirting right on the heels of a more intense orgasm, which of course just adds more potency to the overall sensation. By this point, of course, you can likely get her to squirt just by fucking if you hit it the right way.

Have fun and good luck!